SMH

All I could do is shake my head......

Last Saturday, I had a big dinner sponsored by the good folks at the American Heart Association.  It was black tie optional so that gives you an idea of the type of event.  Coming up to the event, we were charged with  inviting guest.  I invited my Chi town friend, but he didn't have a suit and at the last minute I was gonna invite Coach, but I didn't feel like reaching out....

Well, eventually he and I got to talking and I told him that I was gonna invite him at the last minute.  He said he would have gone with me and that left the door open for him to tell me that I owed him dinner since I didn't invite him :)  I went along with it and invited him to dinner and a movie today.

It started off great.  I picked him up (his son had his truck) and we were off.  We made small talk and then he asked what happened with us?

I told him that I didn't appreciate the way he talked to me and how he treated me.  Of course he said that he didn't remember the conversation that well....but we aired it out and were on our way.

I parked at the theater and as we were walking up.....he said, "what the hell?" and I didn't know what he was talking about and I looked up and his brother was walking up to the theater also.  His brother and his wife with a lot of children.  I spoke to his brother (because he held the door open for all of us) and it got kind of awkward.....his wife goes to the same gym as me and his brother and I were friends once....I don't even know if Coach knows, but it was kind of awkward.  Coach was making conversation with his brother and wasn't really ignoring me, but not really paying attention to me or inviting me into the conversation....it was kind of awkward.

Initially, we were gonna see Avengers in 2D, but since his brother and fam were watching it in 2D, I chose to watch the 3D  (even thought I didn't want to spend the extra money).  We cuddled in the movie and then went to dinner where he tried to ask me about "us" and what I like about him.  At that point, I wasn't really feeling it because when I saw his brother I was reminded that I just can't get with him.  It's WAY TOO WEIRD.

Eventually at the end of the night he was saying to me that he would marry me, blah, blah, blah...How do I get involved with a man when.......

Shaking My Head....

This is too much!!!