The title of this post is deceitful. I'm not dating a lot of men....
I had a dating profile in POF and I’m talking to several different men. So here is a run down of the guys:
CB: I’ve know CB since 2005. I don’t really know him, but we met in 2005. His brother, MisicBox, and I were really good friends. We hung out all the time. When he talked about his brother, CB, there was always a tinged of rivalry going on. So I meet CB on the dating app and he tells me he’s always had a crush on me. Wow. I didn’t know that. But I’m interested. I mean, I was never interested in MusocBox which makes this situation kind of weird. The issue with CB is we don't talk. Over the few weeks that I've tried to get to know him, I've gotten a little annoyed with him. There is no natural conversation. Long awkward silences. What does that mean?
Another annoying thing...he doesn't pronounce my name correctly and he is very sexually flirtatious.
If you are going to be suggestive and flirt that way with me, at least pronounce my name correctly. This is a great turnoff. It all began when he started a game of truth and dare through text. I guess this was his way of trying to get me to talk about sex. My questions were really trying to get to know who he was. His questions were about sex. Had I thought of him sexually? The answer was emphatically, "NO," because I truly had not. I mean he reminds me so much of Musicbox that it's weird thinking about him sexually. I was NOT attracted to Musicbox and he looks like him so why would I be attracted to him. He personality and the way he was acting made it worse.
The other thing that annoyed me was him over inflating himself.
He said he was retired. He's 38.
WHAT?
Retired means you DO NOT work at all. You hang out and do what you want to do all the time. Not make money because you HAVE money. Which is not what he's doing in North Carolina or South Carolina or wherever he is...I can't keep up. He's there working because he doesn't have any money to get back to Illinois. Which is odd....it doesn't seem like he live in Illinois. It seems like he lives in the Carolinas. I mean he's been there since the end of July and its not mid September. So I think he's a little confused. He IMO'd me and he was making kissy faces when I told him goodbye. It was gross...not sexy at all. Yuck!!
To be continued....
